How Become Personal Who We Want

How To A Personal Who We Want Just as the fans who have figure idol , everyone in this world is doomed has the ideal figure . ideal figure in this case is not the person who idolized , but a character who wants to have , so that we become better people . As to whether we want personal The ? It could be we want to be successful people of the world and the hereafter . we Are want to be a dutiful wife to her husband and a good mother to the children . or there is also a wish to become a person who useful for the environment . But , from where we should begin to realize all that ? At least , we should start doing the following things this : 1. Have a clear desire First and most important is we need to know first what exactly personally we want . with personal knowing what we want, we are able to plan , step - by- step to happen . 2. Having been through difficult times That is , we have to go through the zone is not comfortable . Supposing people want to eat , yes there must be a first effort . Can not cook yes must buy . There must be paid . we Are would not be wise if we do not have knowledge broad and experience a lot . we Are will not be successful before building it from scratch with our own efforts . It takes hard times to make us more mature , capable choose the right path , capable overcome the existing problems in the future, able to be an example to others , and certainly capable of being a person who better. All it takes a long process which is certainly not always pleasant . 3. Keep doing the best Many people say à ¢ Å " Why follow eat with dietary rules that strangely weird ? What if tomorrow we 've dead ? Useless dong , our diet . we do not can enjoy hidup.à ¢ â,¬ Yes , we do not know what happened . if we die tomorrow , okay we spend this day with a meal as good - delicious , nutritious whether or do not. But what if we are doomed to die for another 100 years ? we do not never eat nutritious foods , then the rest age we will be filled with the disease . So also with other things , such as being friendly to others , even though that person never do no good at we are. It is important to keep the behavior of the others , because we never know when we would need it . shame , right , at any time if we are assisted by most people we hate ? 4. Knowing what is unwanted There should always be a moment for contemplation . Could when worship , before sleep , or during the holidays. time that , we have to talk to ourselves themselves and ask à ¢ Å " Do things in around us today is in conformity with the desire ? What about jobs , couples , environment , family ? whether we 've been able to be yourself in the middle ? Or are we forced harbored ideology upheld , because it can not show what we think is right and what we want? à ¢ â,¬ Every now and then the question needs to be filed , so we can tell which appropriate action conscience and where who does not. Too much force yourself to not be yourself , in eventually just be piling load mental in our lives . This will regret later . 5. Breaking the rules and standard As a small child full of flavor out and full of curiosity , occasionally we have to break the rules and appeals people around , in order to know what that will happen . After that, we has the experience and learn from the moment . We will never know that fire can burn the skin , before touching. It is enough risky , but it can make us always introspective . Image Credit By febrynahalim All the above points need to be done if we really want to become a person who desirable , certainly better person from now on. Not easy. But , instead of means it can not be done. asy-suryadi-k.blogspot.com/2014/12/how-become-personal-who-we-want.html fb.me/3L60xBS1p twitter.com/AsySuryadik/status/545750748647002113 #2014kami #HowBecomePersonalWhoWeWant #HowToBecomeAPersonalWhatWeWant